Dearest Stevie
Words cannot express how much it meant to Tobes and I to have had you marry us – what a day! You ensured that everything we wanted to say was said and you made our service completely unique and based on both of our personalities. Your advice was also highly appreciated and we loved the personal touches that you made possible for us. Thank you for all your time and energy that you put into our big day. Your gentle nature and calm mannerism made us both feel so relaxed and made our day perfect.
You were the best.
Carly and Toby

Hi Stephen
This is a short note to say a huge THANK YOU for such a special day. You made it exactly the way we wanted it – relaxed, intimate and above all special. So many of our guests commented on how special and unique it was and how amazing it was that you brought the boys into the ceremony. The fact that Connor cried is an indication how special he felt and how happy he was. Your words of wisdom on the secrets to marriage were awesome and it will be something we will always remember. Keep doing what you doing and you will continue to make more days special for so many people.
Kind regards
Michelle & David

Dear Steve,
First of all, THANK you for making our wedding one, we will never forget! Your professionalism throughout all our meetings and the actual event was fantastic! Both Deon and I got so many compliments in which way which you handled the service, and especially the fact that you made us both feel at ease during the ceremony. Your quirkiness, was much appreciated! I also want to say, that we both enjoy your company, and that a true friendship will develop from this, that I am sure of! We both agree that we can recommend you to anyone who needs these services! You will be first on our list of preferred “suppliers”, that is a promise.
Once again THANK YOU!!!
Andre and Deon

Dear Stephen,
Simon and I would like to take this opportunity to truly thank you for your wonderful delivery of our wedding ceremony:
We are so glad we found Stephen to perform the service at our wedding. He understood our vision of the special day and found ways to accommodate those needs at a very point. From the first moment we began speaking to Stephen, he was willing to take the time to explain everything to us, in detail. He met with us on numerous occasions and was prompt with feedback and communication. He came forward with wonderful, unique ideas that customized our wedding with the distinct and extraordinary ambiance we wanted. We appreciate his kind efforts and hard work in personalizing a perfect and beautiful ceremony. We had many compliments from our guests after the ceremony. They were quite moved with his delivery of our vows and composure through out. Stephen was calm, relaxed and had such a welcoming approach (even though things got a little muddled when we could not use a microphone). Family raved about the moving and memorable ceremony. Without hesitation, we strongly recommend his splendid and creative gift. In today's hustle and hectic lives, it is getting harder and harder to find someone who is willing to take the time to help with such a kind, loving, and accepting demeanor. Stephen is someone we will always remember as we reflect on our special day. Because of him, it was truly the best day ever imaginable.
Sincerely
Simon and Ruth Edwards (Married 11.11.2011)

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Hi Stephen
Thank you so much for the memorial service for my gran, Marjorie Mitchell, on Wednesday afternoon. The organisation was phenomenal and the attention to detail made us feel comfortable the we were in the right hands. I know it was a particularly hard day for you, but this was not at all noticeable during the service. You captivated all with your thought-provoking words and the power of your delivery. If at all possible, please could you forward me a copy of the sermon as there were some specific points I would like to re-visit.
Thank you again and have a wonderful weekend.
Best wishes, Juliet

Hi Stephen
I would like to say THANK YOU for the most amazing memorial service you did for my grandmother HILDEGUARDE PATRICK, she would be incredibly proud of the way in which the service was conducted, you not only made a very heart sore time, very special but also listened to our individual needs as well. You are truly talented and inspirational. I noticed towards the end of the service when you did, what would have been my grandmothers response to our thoughts and sadness that you too felt our pain of her leaving, this made the service even more special.
Thank you for making this such a special and memorable moment for us all.
God Bless

Dear Stephen
I know I thanked and complimented you briefly yesterday but I would just like to reiterate our sincere gratitude for the wonderful job that you did at my mother’s funeral service .You said so many things which were ,in my opinion, of value and thought-provoking. You combined pragmatism with empathy (and a bit of life-skills advice!)with a sufficient religious element You got the mix right and many of our friends afterwards had high praise for your service. As I said, I don’t think I have experienced a better funeral service.
Thank you very much.
Kind Regards, Patrick Mundell

Hi there
I would like to thank you for the beautiful service that you conducted this morning, for my deceased father, Luiz. Everyone came up to me afterwards with compliments for your service. Dr.Melvyn Greenberg asked for a copy of your sermon for two of his staff, who are lay preachers. He is a vet and Lot, his right hand man and Poto, one of his groomers, are the lay preachers. Melvyn is a scientific type person, atheist and doesn’t believe in souls, so you seemed to have impressed him with your words. I think what you said embraced people from all walks of life, without any prejudice or judgment or critism. I see on your card that you only do funerals, my son and his fiancé were so moved by you, that they were wondering if you do weddings. They are getting married in April and would love for you to marry them.
Once again, thank you.

Dear Stephen,
Thank you very much for a truly wonderful service, it was absolutely fantastic, and I could not suggest anything to improve your already very and ultimately professional manner in which you served, once again thank you and as I discussed with you after the service we ,Jennifer and I would like to stretch out our arms to you and offer you our service to you ,should you like to have some tea or coffee at our home anytime you wish, we would be honored to have you join us and grace you upon your presence.
Kindest thanks Jennifer and Stuart

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Good Morning Stephen,
Hope you are doing well. I just want to thank you for your help on Tuesday. I have not been in a good space lately. The aftermath of the divorce and struggles and court battles to get my kids really got me very down and depressed. Up until lately it got worse and worse even to a point where I battled focusing on work. Thank you for showing me that there are different sides to everything. I was so focused on the negative side of what happened that I never imagined that any good can be seen in not having custody over my young children. I have a complete new perspective on my situation, and this is really helping stacks. So the moment my mind starts focusing on what is bad, I think of the good that came out of the situation. I want to “train” my mind to see the balance in every situation. Good and Bad. If it is ok with you I would like to refer you to some of my friends… They saw the change in me and asked about it.
Thank you once again. You won’t believe the difference it has made.
Have a amazing day, Marguerite

Dear Stephen
I wanted to attempt to put into words the profound effect that you, in conjunction with the Demartini Method, have had on my life. Today, 25 September 2011, is the first time in 7 years that I woke up on my late son, Kyle’s, birthday feeling bubbly and at peace with his passing. The Demartini Method for Grief assisted me to see the other side of his death and realise that nothing is ever missing.
I must be honest that I was very skeptical when we started our first session. You then proceeded to blow me away with the questions you asked and the way they forced me to think and to see things in a new light. Who would have thought that there were benefits and drawbacks to every trait and every situation?
The subsequent sessions were just as helpful and I must say I now find myself automatically equilibrating issues as they arise. The full collapse we did on my dad was unbelievable. We both healed immediately. Thank you for those 4 hours. More recently, the full collapse we did on my daughter turned our relationship around dramatically. Another 4 hours well spent!
The session we did on low self-esteem gave me new insights on why I carry excess weight and although that was not the focus I subsequently have lost a lot of weight. I have gone from a size 18 to a size 12 and am still losing weight nicely.
Then of course we addressed smoking and while I have not stopped completely, I now smoke 7 a day compared to the 15 before the session. Let’s do some more work on this please.
Finally, thank you for encouraging me to attend the Breakthrough Experience. That certainly got the theory into my head and I now truly see the value of the methodology. I collapsed my husband and low and behold our relationship has improved drastically. On top of all of that, the Breakthrough Experience is now assisting me in my business too.
Once again, my deep felt gratitude.
I feel honored and inspired to walk this journey with you. Nina

Dear Stephen,
I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for the time and energy you spent facilitating me through the Demartini Process on the 15th January 2011. As I am a Life Coach, I was curious to see how and if the method would assist deeper, reflective learning of self and create sustainable change for me. With this in mind I chose to work on an inner conflict with self. The results and experience during the process were thought provoking and interesting; I enjoyed being challenged and stretched, mentally and emotionally, which you are able to do effortlessly and from a place of support and encouragement. I can conclusively say that my curiosity was indeed satisfied. The process did assist deeper, reflective learning and created sustainable change within my thought process around the issue we worked on. Therefore, I am now more comfortable with the issue and can see the benefits of the change already taking place in my life.
I wish you everything of the best for your future and the work that you are doing to change lives.
Warm Regards Samantha

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Master of Ceremonies Testimonial:

Dear Stephen
Thanks so much for helping to make the ADC prize giving the success that it was.
The students commented on how your short messages had given them so much food for thought and had motivated them to aspire to greater things.
Regards, Maxine
MAXINE SHANDLER
Head: Access Programmes
Academic Development Centre, UJ

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Dear Stephen
On behalf of Hammond and myself I'd like to thank you for the spectacular job you did MC-ing at my wedding. It was not only professional, but engaging. You made my guests feel relaxed, and your words were entertaining and humorous without losing the formality of the occasion.
I look forward to seeing you again at another wedding as the response to your work was well received and I'm sure many referrals will result.
Thanks again! Nicole

Good evening Stephen, once again, thanks for last night's very useful and informative talk, and for your sense of humor woven into a very serious matter.
We'll attend a talk of yours in the nearby future without a doubt.

Good morning Nadia
We thoroughly enjoyed Stephen's Relationship Talk last night, and found it very informative. We only thought it could have been a little bit longer, as it seemed like the talk was rushed against time towards the end.
Thank you so much, we will certainly show face again.
Regards Dave & Tanya Johnson

Good Morning Stephen,
Trust that this email finds you well. Thank you very much for your talk last night, it was definitely food for thought. Please could you email me your transcript as discussed last night, there were a few things that I did not get down in time.
Thanking you kindly in advance.
Kindest and best regards Tracey

HI NADIA
PLEASE CAN I HAVE A TRANSCRIPT OF LAST NIGHTS TALK!
LOVED IT, WILL BE IN TOUCH TO BOOK A ONE ON ONE WITH HUBBY...
MANY THANKS YOLANDA

Good Morning Nadia,
Thank you for your email. The talk was very good. It was definitely food for thought. It would have been really good if it could have been longer. Take care.
Kindest and warmest regards Tracey

Good morning Nadia
We thoroughly enjoyed Stephen's Relationship Talk last night, and found it very informative. We only thought it could have been a little bit longer, as it seemed like the talk was rushed against time towards the end.
Thank you so much, we will certainly show face again.
Regards Dave & Tanya Johnson

Hi Stephen,
Thank you so much for your time at Shepstone Gardens last week. You said we could email to get the links of the love & apology languages as well as the transcript of the speech. Please would you pass those on when you have a chance.
Kind regards, Carly Sutton

Dear Stephen.
Thank you so much for a great talk last night! Please let me know when you are back in Cape Town so we can arrange another talk, possibly the “no regrets” one!!!
Warm regards, Cindy Holmes The 8 O' Clock Club – Cape Town

Dear Stephen.
Thank you so much for spending time with us on Friday, the team truly loved it. Thank you for the mail that you sent with the feedback and insights. YOU are AWESOME!
Kind Regards, Lee den Hond Blue Platinum Events

Dear Stephen.
Thanks for the talk last night! It definitely got the thought process going, and gave a lot of insight into why we do/don't do certain things. There will always be work to be done when it comes to personal growth! Looking forward to the next one!
Vivienne Hanmer

Good evening Stephen, once again, thanks for last night's very useful and informative talk, and for your sense of humor woven into a very serious matter. We'll attend a talk of yours in the nearby future without a doubt.

Good morning Nadia
We thoroughly enjoyed Stephen's Relationship Talk last night, and found it very informative. We only thought it could have been a little bit longer, as it seemed like the talk was rushed against time towards the end. Thank you so much, we will certainly show face again.
Regards Dave & Tanya Johnson

Good Morning Stephen,
Trust that this email finds you well. Thank you very much for your talk last night, it was definitely food for thought. Please could you email me your transcript as discussed last night, there were a few things that I did not get down in time. Thanking you kindly in advance.
Kindest and best regards Tracey

HI NADIA
PLEASE CAN I HAVE A TRANSCRIPT OF LAST NIGHTS TALK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOVED IT, WILL BE IN TOUCH TO BOOK A ONE ON ONE WITH HUBBY............
MANY THANKS YOLANDA

Good Morning Nadia,
Thank you for your email. The talk was very good. It was definitely food for thought. It would have been really good if it could have been longer. Take care.
Kindest and warmest regards, Tracey

Hi Stephen,
Thank you so much for your time at Shepstone Gardens last week. You said we could email to get the links of the love & apology languages as well as the transcript of the speech. Please would you pass those on when you have a chance.
Kind regards, Carly Sutton

Hi Wendy
As with both talks given by Stephen, I find his way of looking at, and then presenting the subject, to be very thought-provoking and resulted in me looking at the subjects (especially the road rage) from a very different perspective. One needs someone like Stephen to encourage one to look at things differently, and to think out of the box.
Please book me for the remainder of his talks - am sure they will be equally good. Have enjoyed the first two, and like Stephen's sense of humour and his way of putting his subject across.
Many thanks, Jennifer

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